Opinion
Should You Tell Her How You Feel? Why the Standard Advice to Men Doesn’t Work
“Don’t bottle it up.” “Be open.” “Just tell her how you feel.” A man hears this from therapists, from movies, and from women themselves. It sounds mature and honest. But with a woman, it almost always works against him. Three typical situations — early on, a year in, and in a crisis — and what actually happens in each.
Why ChatGPT Is a Bad Relationship Advisor — Even When It Sounds Reasonable
It’s smart, polite, and always there. On simple questions it gives perfectly sensible answers. But where a man is really hurting — his wife or girlfriend is leaving, has gone silent, keeps nagging — it gives advice that makes things worse. Three real questions, three ChatGPT answers, and one mistake repeated in every single one.